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Signs of Cheating – How To Recognize The Signs Of A Cheating Spouse

Signs of Cheating – How To Recognize The Signs Of A Cheating Spouse

Signs of Cheating – How To Recognize The Signs Of A Cheating Spouse

by Dean Cortez
Author of How To Catch Cheating

It is incredibly painful to imagine that your lover might be carrying on an affair behind your back. Some would say that this is the ultimate betrayal. Cheating can instantly destroy the trust between two people that has taken many years to develop. And so, people who find out that their partners have been cheating will often experience a conflicting storm of emotions — rage, depression, grief, shame, and sometimes even relief when they realize that their suspicions have been confirmed, and they’ve been right all along.

Before you end a relationship because of your suspicions, or lose any more sleep worrying about what MIGHT be going on, you need to make sure that your actions will be 100% warranted. You need to find out, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that your partner has in fact betrayed you — whether they are involved in a serious, long-term affair, or it was a brief sexual fling.

However, damnning physic  al evidence is often difficult to obtain. It’s not easy to collect solid proof. And if you confront your partner and make accusations without any evidence, it’s very doubtful that they will admit their infidelity. (Men, in particular, will almost always flat-out deny a woman’s accusations.)

There are, however, signs of cheating you can look out for, which will make your case stronger when you do decide to confront your partner.  

The following are several signs of cheating that you should be aware of, and pay close attention to. Read them, consider each one, and think about whether they apply to your partner or your relationship:

1. Your partner’s sex drive and sexual behaviour have changed.

Sex is a very important component of a happy, healthy relationship between two adults. When one of the two people begins to cheat, one of the most obvious signs of cheating is that their sexual behavior changes. Quite simply, their feelings about having sex with their partner are going to be noticeably different. This is true of cheating men, and cheating women, alike.

With this sign of cheating, don’t assume that a LESSER sex drive is the sign of a cheating man or woman (which would indicate that they’ve been having lots of sex elsewhere). In fact, the signs of cheating may include a HIGHER sex drive when the cheater is with their partner!

The cheater may be feeling guilty about their actions, and will try to compensate by paying more attention to their partner in bed. After a while, though, the cheater will usually lose their sex drive with their partner and make excuses about being too tired, or not in the mood, for sex with them.

Cheaters don’t only behave this way because they’re tired from all the sex they’ve been having in secret. They may fear that if they have sex with their partner, the partner will somehow detect that they’ve been cheating…from their behavior before, during and after the sex.

2. Strange changes in habits and schedule.

People who cheat almost always change their behavior and habits in certain ways. Sometimes these changes are blatant; other times, they are very subtle.  But changes in the cheater’s daily schedule and habits can be a powerful sign of cheating — because no matter how hard the cheater tries to conceal their infidelities, they will NEED to make changes in order to make time for their “other lover.”

These signs of cheating may include a difference in the times they come to, and leave, the house. Also, if their phone and internet/computer usage has increased noticeably, these may also be signs of cheating. (Also, is your partner receiving mysterious phone calls that they don’t want to answer in your presence — or do they leave the room to answer the phone? This is common sign of cheating.)

These are not necessarily indications of betrayal, and should not be considered “solid evidence,” but if you see these signs you may want to monitor your partner more closely.

3. Changes in your partner’s behavior that “just don’t feel right”

There are many signs of cheating that only YOU will notice, because you are so intimately familiar with your partner’s personality and the normal dynamics of your relationship. For example, let’s say in the past, your partner had a confrontational personality and frequently started arguments with you over minor issues. Or, there was something you had a habit of doing, that made your partner irritated or upset.

But now, your partner doesn’t pick fights, or doesn’t seem to notice the behaviors that once upset them. This can be a sign of cheating, because  cheaters will often avoid confrontations with their partner. This may be due to their guilty feelings, or they might just want to avoid any confrontation with you because it may lead to their cheating being discovered.

Another sign of cheating: your partner seems MORE attentive to you than usual. Again, because of their feelings of guilt, a cheater will often try to over-compensate: asking you how your day went, how you’re feeling, and expressing an unusual amount of concern and care. If this is abnormal behavior for them, then it could be a sign of cheating.

Again, don’t assume that a cheater is going to act aloof and inattentive to you. Their feelings of guilt, and desire to avoid being caught, might cause them to behave in an opposite manner — trying to please you more in bed, expressing lots of phony care and concern, and even buying you gifts.  

So, be aware of these signs of cheating, and don’t assume you know all of the indicators. Also, you shouldn’t go on your “gut instinct” alone if you’re going to confront your partner. Mere suspicions won’t be enough to make them come clean with you.

If you are concerned about cheating causing a problem in your own relationship, or you want to “cheat proof” your relationship so that cheating is NEVER an option for either one of you, click here and download this powerful book and audio program:

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Should You Hire A Private Investigator To Catch A Cheating Husband?

Should You Hire A Private Investigator To Catch A Cheating Husband?

by Dean Cortez

Finding out that your husband has been cheating on you is likely to be one of the most devastating things that can happen to you. It can be even more painful to SUSPECT that you are being cheated on, and that your cheating husband is playing you for a fool…but you don’t have any evidence or proof, only your suspicions and “gut instinct.”

Unfortunately, when a woman seriously suspects that she has a cheating husband, and that there is infidelity going on in their relationship, she is usually correct. But it can be a mistake for her to confront a cheating husband when there is no solid proof. It’s too easy for the cheating husband to simply deny the allegations, and turn it around on his wife — accusing HER of being paranoid, jealous, crazy, etc.

In many cases, the fastest and most effective way to confirm your suspicions,  get the proof, and move forward with your life is to hire a private investigator. There are PI services in virtually every city, and you can usually call them and receive a free consultation.

There are numerous signs of infidelity that you can spot yourself, and use to “build your case” against your cheating husband, but there are other reasons why you should consider hiring a private investigator.

First of all, you don’t want to break the law and get yourself into big trouble. Although all kinds of “surveillance technology” and “catch-a-cheater” devices are sold over the internet, in many cases it is not legal for a private individual (such as yourself) to use them. If you install software on your partner’s computer to monitor what he’s doing on the internet, or record his phone calls, or follow him and take pictures of him while he is with another woman, you could actually be arrested and go to jail!

There are serious privacy laws and anti-stalking laws that you must follow, even if you are trying to watch a cheating husband. Breaking these laws can be a federal offense, and most people are not even aware of this.

This is when a good private investigator can be extremely useful. They are familiar with the laws in your state, and because they are licensed professionals, they have the legal right to put people under surveillance and gather evidence in ways that you are not allowed to. Once the investigator has gathered conclusive evidence on the cheating husband, he will present it to you. In the future, if this case goes to court, this evidence can be presented because it was obtained by a fair and impartial third party (the investigator).

If you were to try to show evidence that you gathered on your own, by “stalking” your husband, it would never be admissable. The cheating husband’s lawywer would have it thrown out of court.

The last thing you want to do is wrongly accuse your husband of having an extramarital affair. That could cause as much damage to your relationship as infidelity itself. This is especially true if you have a suspicious or jealous nature. If you are this type of person, then hiring a private investigator will help you uncover the FACTS.

Just be prepared to spend some money. Infidelity investigations are not cheap and can easily run into the thousands of dollars, depending on what type of services you require, and if the investigation will be complicated and involve a lot of moving around. (For example, if the investigator needs to follow your husband on business trips.) Hourly rates for investigators are usually around 0, and most require a retainer up front which is equal to at least a few hours of work.

But this can also be the best investment you’ve ever made. For a lot of women, you can’t put a price on finding out the truth about a cheating husband — and getting the closure you need, so that you can move on with your life and find the happiness that you deserve.

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How To Ask A Girl Out

How To Ask A Girl Out

How To Ask A Girl Out

Hi, this is Dean Cortez, creator of the Mack Tactics program — the top guide for guys who want to become massively skilled and attractive with women. One of most common questions I get asked is, how to ask a girl out.

Here are tips on how to ask a girl out that should help you overcome any nervousness, and get her say “yes” instead of turning you down, or telling you she’s busy…

1. First, don’t think about this as “asking a girl out on a date.” When you ask a woman out in the traditional way, and you frame it as a “date,” you are already putting yourself in a weak position. You’re basically communicating to her, “I obviously like you, and I’m hoping you’ll like me, too, so let me spend some money on you in an attempt to show you I’m worthy of dating you.”

You want to frame it differently. Rather than asking her out on a “normal date,” you want to invite her to ACCOMPANY YOU to some cool, interesting spot that you think she would enjoy.

This way, the message you are sending is this: you’re a fun guy who has an active social life and knows about cool places, and this is HER chance to be a part of your interesting world and broaden her horizons.

You want to phrase it so that it sounds like you are planning to do this activity ANYWAY, so if she can’t join you for whatever reason (maybe she actually IS busy), it’s not like she is rejecting you.

When you call her to make this “invite,” have your gameplan already worked out. (The WORST way to ask a girl out — and this is how most guys do it — is to say something vague like, “So maybe if you’re free sometime, we could do something…”

No. You’ve got to make it EASY for her to say “yes.” You do this by laying out a gameplan that includes the time and location, and sounds cool and interesting. The more SPECIFIC you are, the less chance there is of her making an excuse to back out.

Example:

“So Cindy, I’m planning to visit this arts festival on Saturday that I hear is going to be amazing. I can tell that you’ve got a creative, artistic side, and this is something you’re definitely going to love, so you should come along with me on Saturday. I can pick you up at 1 o’clock.”

Or, “I’m super busy for the next few days, but on Friday night I’m going to swing by this amazing Mexican restaurant that I discovered. This place is a hidden gem, I swear they have the most awesome margaritas in town. You should come with me, I can pick you up before I head over there. Say, 8 o’clock.”

As far as where you bring her, there are a endless possibilities. It could be a cool coffee shop, a bar, an outdoor festival, a show at an art gallery, a free concert in the park, a cool part of town that has funky shops and boutique stores where you want to do some shopping…the bottom line is that it needs to be a place you can get her EXCITED about visiting with you. You need to “sell” it to her.

2. To increase your chances of her agreeing to the plan, present her with a “false choice.” Invite her to do something that can be done on Friday OR Saturday. (Assuming she does not work on the weekends.)

For example, you could say, “This weekend, I need to shop for a birthday gift for my friend Mike. I want to get him a really cool shirt, or a pair of jeans — something trendy. I’d love to get your opinion on it — why don’t you come shopping with me. What’s better for you, Saturday or Sunday?”

(Now she isn’t thinking in terms of accepting the invite, or turning it down — she’s thinking, “hmmm, am I free on Saturday, or is Sunday better?”

Night-time activities (going out for drinks) is always cool, but daytime dates can also be very effective. If you tend to get nervous on dates, daytime dates — that involve walking around with her — will help you burn off nervous energy. Outdoor shopping malls and street festivals are perfect for this. And by strolling around with her and checking out different things, you’ll have a constant supply of conversational topics.

Notice that NONE of the activities that I suggested including taking her out to dinner, or to a movie. These are typical “dates” that frame you as an ordinary dude who is trying to court her and win her approval. Plus, taking her to dinner requires to spend a substantial amount of money (which should never be necessary on a first date), and taking her a movie isn’t going to help you make any progress. How are you supposed to display your personality and get her attracted to you, when you’re sitting next to her in the dark for two hours and being silent?

When you use these ideas, and then follow it up with the conversational strategies that I explain in the Mack Tactics book, your dating success rate is going to skyrocket.

I can tell you from my own personal experience, when I used to invite women to go to “dinner and a movie” and I’d spend – on the evening, it rarely led to the results I wanted.

But when I started inviting women to come with me and hang out in more interesting, casual settings — even if it was just meeting for coffee at a cozy, comfortable coffee shop — I found that the conversation would flow much more naturally and we would “bond.” There isnt any sense of pressure or expectations when you approach the first date this way.

Neither person is comfortable when you ask a girl out to a fancy restaurant and try to impress her that way.

For dozens of amazing conversational tactics and strategies to use with women, sure-fire techniques on how to ask a girl out, and tips on how to ESCALATE the situation towards romance, visit www.deancortez.com. Watch our free instructional videos, download our free book, and start turbo-charging your dating game NOW!

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Do Men Cheat More Than Women?

Do Men Cheat More Than Women?

by Dean Cortez

So who cheats more, men or women? This is a popular and controversial question. There aren’t any exact statistics available on this, and the numbers would surely be innacurate, anyway. This is because when it comes to people admitting their cheating in polls and surveys, men tend to inflate their number of affairs and sexual partners, while women tend to hide or downplay the extent of their extramarital affairs.

According to a poll conducted by WomanSavers.com, over 62% of women think that men
cheat more than women. This isn’t surprising — because most of the voters were men!

Naturally, women believe that men do most of the cheating, while men will argue at
women cheat “just as much as they do.”

Is this really true? Some experts say that these days, women and men do cheat in equal numbers. The difference is that men who cheat tend to be more “serial” about it — they cheat with a variety of sexual partners. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to get into a longer-term extramarital relationship.

Decades ago, men surely did most of the cheating because they had far more opportunities to do so. It is true that most affairs begin in the workplace, and back then, men were the only ones that HAD a workplace to go to. Women stayed at home and took care of the kids and the household.

Today, of course, men and women are both in the workplace and interacting with members of the opposite sex. Women are spending more time at work with their male colleagues than at home with their husbands. The workplace is also fertile ground for cheating because people tend to leave their grumpy feelings behind when they go to work. At home, people are stressed out over bills, taking care of the kids, and problems with their spouse; when they go to work, they can leave all of that behind.

Also, people tend to look their best at work. They want to look attractive and presentable. In the workplace, men see women — and women see men — in their best
light.” It’s not the same when they’re at home, lounging around in a pair of sweatpants.   

According to a survey, 46 percent of unfaithful wives and 62 percent of unfaithful
husbands have had affairs with someone they met at work. So you see, cheating at the workplace is a very big problem — and it’s happening with both men and women.

Another interesting statistic shows that the more money a husband has, or earns, the more likely he is to cheat on his wife. Having cash enables a man to travel, to join clubs, and to take time off from work. It also enables him to purchase gifts for other women, or pay for hotel rooms and travel when they want to get together.

Men who don’t have much money tend to spend more time and attention on their families.

They have less time alone (which could otherwise be spent pursuing women), and they lack the funds to carry on affairs or take care of a mistress. But, this is not to say that the Average Joe who earns a regular wage is not going to cheat. Many of these guys do cheat, they just tend to have a harder time covering their tracks — and they often get busted.

Through my research, I’ve also found that most men who cheat aren’t looking to get
involved in long-term “affairs” with one woman. In America, it’s not common for
cheating men to keep a mistress on the side. It’s much more likely that they are
pursuing casual sex with different women, and one-night stands.

The other big question people ask is WHY men cheat, versus why women cheat. Do men and women stray for different reasons? The common assumption is that men are ruled by their sex drives and cheat mostly for sexual gratification, while women cheat when they feel emotionally neglected.

Well, my research has shown that “neglect” is the operative word in MOST cheating situations. When men feel neglected, they cheat. When a woman feels neglected by her husband, she’ll be open to offers from other men. This neglect can come in many forms — in the bedroom, or simply not taking an active interest in your partner’s feelings and being emotionally supportive when they have troubles.

The reason why infidelity is so common in our society is that too many people place more value on their careers, children, hobbies and friends than they do on their relationships with their partners. When you neglect your relationship and your partner, it’s may be only a matter of time before they start looking for happiness elsewhere. No one wants to feel neglected.

The bottom line is this: if you want to avoid becoming yet another infidelity statistic, you must nurture your relationship on a daily basis and pay attention the warning signs, before it’s too late.

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How To Destroy Approach Anxiety Easily

How To Destroy Approach Anxiety Easily

Hey there!

Well if your reading this article you know exactly how it feels to be in a bar or club or even just in the queue at Starbucks. See a really hot girl, and think I really want to go and speak with her and meet her but just cant. You freeze up, get nervous and then start running through all the reasons you shouldn’t go and speak with her. She’s way out of my league, she’s probably got a boyfriend or my favorite, What can I offer her?

Well I’m sure you can relate. I was very much the same, I’d see these beautiful girls really want to walk over and speak with them and get to know them but worry far to much that I would bail and look stupid, or the girl would just not want me to go over and speak with her, because hey what would I have to offer her? I mean I would see all these other guys with these hot girls and wander how the hell did her get her??? The simple fact of the matter is, he got hold of his balls and went and spoke to the women her thought was attractive, he was a decent guy and they hooked up! So he had one up on the rest of the competition. I just wished that I could shake this anxiety off, and pluck up the courage to go and do it!

So after years of having this horrible feeling of worthlessness I decided to do something about it! I began by simply searching on the internet to find something, anything that would give me an insight to squash this stupid feeling that stops me speaking with beautiful women, like you have done to find this article. After reading about the psychology behind what was causing this feeling I realised that it wasn’t the approaching the women that unnerved me it was the rejection I feared, that is the real fear for us men. The REJECTION! Now knowing this I began thinking what is that worst thing that could happen if the girl that I approached rejected me? Well if I was polite, and respectful surely she would be the same back? However we know that not all women or people for that matter are the same. So I began running through “worst case scenarios”. Such as the women saying, “Listen just go away and leave me alone” or “Listen I’m not interested in you creep”. Yeah harsh I know but I wanted to deal with the Worst Cases. Anyway after thinking about this, ok i may look a little foolish as she has rejected me in the front of her friends, but really so what? Will I die, no. Will I never meet another girl again, no! Does she want to come across as a bitch, well 99% of women don’t no. So why am I so reluctant to speak with women? Answer I really couldn’t answer that!

With this new found clarity I began to think about and being excited about speaking to women, however I now needed to find the right thing to say. Back to the internet for some more helpful advice, and boy did I find some. I came across a guy called Dean Cortez who has some fantastic advice on meeting women.

This guy is a genius when it comes to approaching women, what to say, where to take the conversation and even how to set up a second meeting, all within a few minutes. He has got it all down in a great ebook called “Bullet Proof Seduction – Ultimate Approach”. It is one of the best books I have read and is filled with fantastic techniques to cure approach anxiety, how to make a girl feel connected with you instantly and how to say 3 words to her that make her not want you but NEED you! To find out more about this great book go tohttp://bulletproofseductionreview.blogspot.com/. I’m only half way through and feel 10 times more confident about approaching and dating women, so check outhttp://bulletproofseductionreview.blogspot.com/ for the full scoop!

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How To Pick Up Girls And Create Sexual Attraction

How To Pick Up Girls And Create Sexual Attraction

How To Pick Up Girls

Hi, this is Dean Cortez from Mack Tactics with some more tips on how to pick up girls and take your confidence to the next level.

Here is a letter from a Mack Tactics student that asks a very important question about how to pick up girls, and then I’ll give my response…

* * * * *

Hey Dean,

There’s this girl that I’ve liked for a LONG time. Two weeks ago her boyfriend broke up with her.

So I was hanging out with her a couple of nights ago, and I decided to finally to say to her, “Hey, in all honesty, would you ever date a guy like me?”

She told me, “Well, honestly…you’re too nice. For some reason, I like jerks. I know that sounds crazy, but it’s the truth.”

I was a bit stunned and didn’t know what to say. So I just acted like I only joking around, and wasn’t really into her, but inside I felt like crap.

I guess it’s true what they say: “nice guys finish last.” I can’t understand this, Dean — why women always seem to go for guys who are liars and jerks, while nice guys like myself get left out in the cold.

I hope you have some good advice on this…

- Frank, Chicago

>>>DEAN CORTEZ ANSWERS:>>>

Dean Cortez here. Before I got my skills and confidence with women and mastered this “game,” I used to be a classic example of a Nice Guy.

When I think about how many girls I COULD have hooked up with…but didn’t, because my weak “Nice Guy” strategy messed everything up…I want to kick myself!

Back in those days, when I liked a girl, I always made myself available to her. I’d chat with her on the phone, or on the Internet, for as long as she wanted to. If she asked me to meet up and do something, I’d drop whatever I was doing and go see her.

If she was having problems with whatever jerk she was currently sleeping with, I’d listen to her and try to be supportive.

The bottom line was, instead of building a sexual connection with her, I acted like her “friend” who didn’t have any romantic intentions.

I tried to seem as if I wasn’t like “those other guys” who only wanted to get in her pants.

Of course, the whole time I was pretending to be “Mr. Nice Guy,” all I could THINK about was sleeping with her…

I made the huge mistake that so many guys make — thinking that building a FRIENDSHIP first was going to get me the sexual relationship later, if only I spent enough time building her trust.

But as you probably know, it never pans out this way. The guy keeps suffering in the “Friend Zone” until one of two things happens (and both outcomes are bad):

1. One night he finally decides to confess to her how he really feels — and it’s a terribly awkward moment that leads to a rejection.

2. Or, she starts dating another guy who doesn’t want her “Nice Guy” friend hanging around. So, she stops hanging out him completely.

(Hey, if you were dating a girl, would you want her “Nice Guy” buddy hanging around her all the time, obviously hoping to hook up with her? Of course not, you’d tell your girl to stop spending time with him.)

Look, I want to clarify some false beliefs about Nice Guys and Bad Boys — because the truth is, “Nice Guys” really aren’t as honest and sincere as they like to think they are.

In fact, Nice Guys are often being WAY more dishonest that the Bad Boys!

Let me explain…

When a Nice Guy is hanging out with a woman he is HOPING to hook up with, everything he does is a deception!

The entire “friendship” he is building with the girl is phony. He really just wants to get her into bed! He is using this friendship as a TACTIC to try to get what he is truly after.

Unfortunately, it’s a very ineffective tactic. It doesn’t work. And don’t think you’re fooling the girl: if she knows that she is sexually desirable, and she knows you’re a heterosexual MAN with needs, then obviously she knows you want to sleep with her.

She knows what the Nice Guy is REALLY after. But she’s not going to give it to him, because he isn’t projecting any of the qualities that she finds SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE in a man.

The Nice Guy is projecting weakness instead of confidence. He’s also demonstrating that he is completely available to hang out with her whenever she wants, instead of being a man with a full social life and OTHER options.

(Don’t forget, women want a guy who is wanted by other women! The more options she THINKS you have, the more she’ll want you!)

Bad Boys DO have these qualities that women are hard-wired to pursue. And when Bad Boys talk to women, they do so in a flirty, sexual, masculine way.

I have a good buddy who is total Bad Boy and truly understands how to get girls. He’s not some tattooed UFC fighter, rock musician, or strip club bouncer. Actually, he wears a suit every day to his 9-to-5 corporate job.

But when he approaches and talks with girls, he gives off Bad Boy energy. This means he is cocky, playful and ultra-confident — and he also acts like he is not easily impressed, no matter how hot she is.

I was with him at a bar a few nights ago. He said to a girl…

“I hope your boyfriend isn’t here, because I’m about to totally flirt with you. How can you blame me, when you’re wearing a dress like that?”

He delivered this opener with a confident smile and the correct body language. He then transitioned into the conversation with no delay (this is all explained in the Mack Tactics “Ultimate Approach” book), and started moving things in the right direction.

He built up her curiosity and attraction, and then he said to her:

“You’re actually pretty cool, it’s a shame that it would never work out between us. You’re nothing like the girls I usually date.”

Then he immediately changed the subject. He didn’t give her any further explanation — which messed with her self-esteem a bit, and made her want to PROVE that she was worthy of dating a guy him!

A short time later he started talking to her about how he’s a big fan of getting massages. He said to her, “If you know how to give awesome massages, then this MIGHT work out between us. If not, it’s cool, I can be your wingman tonight and help you meet a guy.”

(This is a cool game to play with women. Tell her you’re going to be HER wingman! Then point out some dudes in the room that you know she will TOTALLY NOT be interested in, and offer to introduce her…she will laugh and squirm…then keep teasing her and flirting.)

Then he used another classic “Bad Boy” tactic on her: he WALKED AWAY.

Yes! He told her he had to go say hi to some people and that he’d come back and talk to her a little later.

Then he walked away and hung out with me and my buddies for a while. We were all joking around and having a good time, and the whole time, the girl was WATCHING him and WAITING for him to come back and keep flirting with her!

After keeping her in suspense for a while, he did…and a short time after that, he used a “Deal Closer” tactic to pull her out of the venue and take her back to his place.

The *trick* to getting really successful with girls is to add a “Bad Boy Edge” to your personality that conveys confidence and masculinity.

I’m not saying you should ever behave like a jerk, or disrespect women. Women are not “into” those qualities. Rather, they will ACCEPT these qualities from a Bad Boy who she is strongly attracted to.

You can be the best of both worlds: a laidback, polite, respectful guy, but one who also has the BAD BOY EDGE that makes women desire you in a sexual way — not just “as a friend.”

You can go to the Mack Tactics website and download a FREE 75-page guide that is filled with tactics for taking your game to a rock star level.

If you’re ready to learn how to pick up girls the same way the world’s best pickup artists do it, go to the Mack Tactics site now and download your free copy of this guide while it’s still available.

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Tips To Help You Pick Up Beautiful Asian Women

Tips To Help You Pick Up Beautiful Asian Women

Hey, this is Dean Cortez I want to share several quick tips to help you with meeting beautiful Asian women. (Because the truth is, dating Asian girls requires specific tactics that you wouldn’t use with non-Asian women…)

Now let’s get into it. This 1st tip on dating Asian girls might seem a little obvious, but it’s super-important for you to present cleanliness and very good personal hygiene when you’re around Asian women. This is really important to them! They truly believe in the expression “cleanliness is next to Godliness.”

If you hang around a lot of Asian girls, it’s evident how much they value hygiene and maintaining a presentable appearance. Asian women typically won’t leave their house without first fixing their hair and makeup, and if they’re just going to run a quick errand. (Western women, on the other hand, will often just put on a baseball cap and a baggy sweatshirt.)

So whenever you’re dating Asian women — or you want to attract Asian women — you absolutely must look clean, well-groomed and presentable. It’s always better for you to be slightly over-dressed, rather than under-dressed.

Especially when you’re out on dates with Asian girls! You should always assume that a beautiful Asian woman is going to show up looking her best. If she shows up wearing a classy dress and you walk in wearing shorts and a tee-shirt, you can forget about ever seeing that girl again.

Extra word of advice: If you have been wearing facial hair, you should strongly consider getting rid of it. Go with a clean-shaven look. Women (not just Asian women) almost universally agree that they prefer clean-shaven men. But this is especially important with Asian girls, who have sensitive skin and really don’t want to rub up against your beard or your rough stubble. Plus, Asian men rarely have facial hair. (If you’ve worn a beard or a goattee for years, shaving it off is also a great way to make a “fresh start” and feel good about your appearance.)

My next tip on dating Asian women: you’ve got to communicate to Asian girls that you are an organized guy who has his life in order. They don’t understand people who are constantly “soul searching” and trying to figure out what they want out of life. In their culture, the men work hard, and with a sense of purpose, and they are totally self-sufficient. If you’re sharing a messy apartment with a roommate, and you don’t appear to be making any forward progress with your life, it’s going to be very difficult for you to attract high-quality Asian women.

This does not mean that you need to make tons of money, or have some impressive high-powered career. It simply means that you must be able to show women that you’re organized. If you live in an apartment, you should keep it clean. (If possible, hire a maid to come in once a week and make the place spotless.)

You should not be saddled with a lot of debt. And when you’re hanging out with Asian women, you should mention your plans for the future and ambitions. She will then imagine herself as part of your future.

Basically, Western women are more likely to endure a guy who is a “slacker” or a “bad boy” who leads a chaotic lifestyle, or can’t hold a job. Beautiful Asian women are repelled by this type of guy. It’s very important for them to be with a man who is stable and secure, and can make them feel the same way.

You must always project a sense of calmness, confidence, masculinity and inner strength. Give her the sense that you are in firm control of your life and future. This will make you naturally attractive to hot Asian girls.

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